IU 4-Medicine is an eclectic mix of humanity: both patients and staff. A few days ago, I was prompted to think about our diversity based on a conversation I had with an elderly patient. He was 76 years old and hospitalized for diagnostic studies. I asked him where he was from and he replied, “Tennessee” and then proceeded to tell me the name of a very small town he was sure I wouldn’t remember. He was right, I don’t! Then I asked, “How did you get to IU from Tennessee?” He replied, “I have LIVED in Indianapolis for 68 years. You asked me where I was FROM!” Point taken. There is a distinct difference between where we are from and where we live.
Since I have been transplanted many times, I have always been curious to know where people are from. Over the years, I have learned a lot about the people, cities, towns, and states where I have lived from patients and staff. Once a man responded to that query by saying, “Well, I am Kentucky breed and Indiana feed!” One of my favorite encounters occurred several years ago at IU when I asked an intern, Dr. Khan, where he was from. His reply, “Where do you think I am from?” My response: “Some place very far East of here.” To my surprise, and his great pleasure, he replied, “Mongolia!” Without hesitation, I told him we were probably related. Then I gave him a great explanation of the westward migration of Mongolians centuries ago. Many of them went to the area of the Ukraine where my mother’s family lived. Consequently, it was very probable we had family ties. Naturally, he thought I was very strange. Thereafter, whenever he came to the unit, I referred to him as “Cousin Kahn” and he always smiled in disbelief. I’d like to think that he has told this story over time from his angle - still smiling in disbelief.
So, where are you from? I posed this question to some of my colleagues and got these responses: Indianapolis, Gary, Avon, Hope, South Bend, Linton, Evansville, Terre Haute and C-ville. (You have to be an insider to know that Indiana town.) Chicago, IL; Bettendorf, IA; Lagos, Nigeria; Manila, Philippines; Cincinnati, OH; Milwaukee, WI; Kampala, Uganda; Bangkok, Thailand; Kansas City, KS; Hastings, MN; San Paulo, Brazil; Addis Abba, Ethiopia; and I am from
Valley City, ND - some people consider that a foreign country with its own language! Really, no passport needed. Finally, one nurse admitted being from “Heaven.” I suspect she is one person who really can go home again!
Our journeys have brought us to this place from the North, South, East, and West. We all have stories to tell of the roads we have traveled. My curiosity wonders why we are all here at this place and time - individually and collectively? As a staff, we exist only for a brief period of time. This month, some people are going and new people will come. Soon we will be a different mix and our identity will change. Who are we, and where are we going?
In the scheme if it all, my great hope is that we do not miss one another along the way.
Sherry
Sherry Holden, BSN, RN
Associate Partner, 4South, IU Hospital
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